Wayside Gardens: How to Heal a Broken Marriage


I want to to think just a minute, back to the day you got married. Think about your feelings on that day, how happy and excited you both were. You were looking forward to spending the rest of your lives together. On that day you were celebrating the two of you, as a couple. You certainly did not plan for your marriage to fail, but look what had happened. Overtime, bit by bit your relationship has crumbled and your marriage is falling apart. There is hope, and the simple fact that you recognize that your marriage needs help is the first step in restoring your marriage.Time is one of the stumbling blocks to having a healthy marriage. We all lead busy lives and with everything on our plates, it is easy to put our marriage relationship last on our priority list. This is a terrible mistake. A good marriage just like a garden needs cultivating in order to produce the desired result. Have you ever seen a garden that was not tended? It will soon become overgrown with weeds and is barely recognizable. Your marriage relationship is the same way. You must devote time to the relationship. Make an effort to spend a least a few hours a week, alone with your spouse. Your marriage will will become stronger as the two of you become close again.Another step you can take to heal your broken marriage, is show love. I have read many times that love is not a feeling but is an action that you show everyday. When you are in a new relationship, you are all giddy and forever doing little things for each other to show your love. Somehow that often falls by the wayside after you have been married a while. What have you done lately to show your spouse that you love them? It is really true that little things can mean a lot.Communication breakdown is the root of many arguments and disagreements that occur in a marriage. If the constant bickering is what is tearing your marriage apart, it may be that the two of your need some help with your communication skills. Having the same arguments over and over and never finding a solution, is a good indication that the two of your are not communicating effectively.Making time to spend with your spouse, showing them your love and learning to communicate better are three ways that you can help to heal a broken marriage. If your marriage problems stem from bigger issues, it may be time to seek outside help in an effort to turn your relationship around. [EXTRACT] I think that just a minute, back to the day they were married. Think about your feelings on that day, how happy and excited they both were. I was expecting to spend the rest of their life together. On that day, celebrated both as a couple. By the way, had no plans for her marriage to fail, but look what happened. Overtime gradually their relationship has fallen apart and his marriage is falling apart. There is hope, and the simple fact that you acknowledge that your marriage needs help is the first step in restoring your marriage.Time is one of the obstacles to having a healthy marriage. All have very busy lives and everything on our plates, it is easy to put our marriage relationship for the last time our priority list. This is a terrible mistake. A good marriage as a garden needs to be cultivated to produce the desired result. Have you ever seen a garden that was not honored? Soon to become overgrown with weeds and is barely recognizable. Your marriage relationship is in the same way. You must devote time to the relationship. Make an effort to spend at least a few hours a week alone with your spouse. Their marriage will become stronger as the two of you will pass by again.Another you can take to heal his broken marriage is to show love. I have read many times that love is not a feeling but an action that shows every day. When you are in a new relationship, which are of vertigo and always doing the little things to each other to show their love. In a way, which is often on the road after having been married a long time. What have you done lately to show his wife who loves him? It is true that little things can mean a lot split. Communication is the root of many discussions and disagreements that occur in marriage. If the constant dispute is what is destroying your marriage, why can not the two of their need for help with their communication skills. Having the same arguments over and over again without ever finding a solution is a good indication that two of your time do not communicate effectively.Making to be with her husband, showing her love and learn to communicate better are three ways in which can help to heal a broken marriage. If marriage problems stem from larger problems, it may be time to seek outside help in an effort to turn your relationship around.
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